I just saw your post about me babe! thank you!
The Canadians staying at my house were kind enough to leave me a good amount of weed when they left.
I honestly don’t smoke that much, so this is going to last me forrrrrrrrrrrrrever
is polyamorous, or polyamory people that are in open relationships, is that a sexuality because in the (a)sexual documentary this polyamory claim it’s the opposite of asexuality, which I whole-heartedly believe and support but I honestly don’t know if polyamory is a…
I agree with psychophancy, and I just wanted to add that asexuality isn’t the opposite of polyamory, or visa versa.
I know plenty of Polyamorous folks who identify as asexual.
So I got to see a lot of new boy at comic con. I stopped by his group’s booth several times.
I also saw him at the aquabats show on Thursday. But fuck, I was way too drunk. It was not good. Like blackout drunk.
I didn’t think I had had all that much to drink, I also had taken a lot of strong painkillers, that didn’t help. :/
I miss my husband a lot.
He comes home in two weeks.
Communication with what’s his butt has been spotty, but now that comic con is over I’m sure it’ll pick back up. I’m sure I did or said some things while black out drunk. But he hasn’t brought it up, so I haven’t brought it up.
There are SIX people who stayed in my house this week for comic con. I live in a glorified studio apartment, it’s been shitty.
And the heat in so-cal has been dumb. Dumb dumb dumb.
"I’ll marry a man who knows how I take my tea, coffee, and alcohol
And knows when to make which."
Do you think every president goes through a awkward first few weeks in office when they’re not sure when’s the right time to ask if aliens are real or not?
"My response to the “I am not a feminist” internet phenomenon….
First of all, it’s clear you don’t know what feminism is. But I’m not going to explain it to you. You can google it. To quote an old friend, “I’m not the feminist babysitter.”
But here is what I think you should know.
You’re insulting every woman who was forcibly restrained in a jail cell with a feeding tube down her throat for your right to vote, less than 100 years ago.
You’re degrading every woman who has accessed a rape crisis center, which wouldn’t exist without the feminist movement.
You’re undermining every woman who fought to make marital rape a crime (it was legal until 1993).
You’re spitting on the legacy of every woman who fought for women to be allowed to own property (1848). For the abolition of slavery and the rise of the labor union. For the right to divorce. For women to be allowed to have access to birth control (Comstock laws). For middle and upper class women to be allowed to work outside the home (poor women have always worked outside the home). To make domestic violence a crime in the US (It is very much legal in many parts of the world). To make workplace sexual harassment a crime.
In short, you know not what you speak of. You reap the rewards of these women’s sacrifices every day of your life. When you grin with your cutsey sign about how you’re not a feminist, you ignorantly spit on the sacred struggle of the past 200 years. You bite the hand that has fed you freedom, safety, and a voice.
In short, kiss my ass, you ignorant little jerks.”
Nicki Minaj shining a light on the differences on acceptable sexuality from white women and black women.
While it has a good deal to do with color, it also has to do with the fact of how her sexuality is used.
The women above her could arguably be said to be catering to the sexual needs/wants/fantasies of men (Sports Illustrated is ESPECIALLY known for catering to a male gaze.) While Nicki Minaj has continuously used her sexuality to empower herself. Her sexuality isn’t for men, it’s for her own self. And THAT is a huge problem. Sexuality that isn’t designed for male consumption is deemed unacceptable and threatening. She is powerful, demanding, uncompromising, and men are weak, so that scares them.
And it’s also because she’s of Indian/Black background, no doubt about it. It’s not just racist, it’s also sexist.
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